Difficult communications: Overview of The GAVSD System


Blaming placating computing levelling

Blaming in response to Blaming gets you a fight.

Placating in response to Placating gets you an undignified delay.

Computing in response to Computing gets you a dignified delay.

Leveling in response to Leveling is an exchange of the simple truth; it’s always the best choice when it’s safe and when it’s appropriate.

Distracting in reponse to Distracting is panic feeding panic; it’s always a mistake.

Rule One:
If you don’t know what to do, go to Computer Mode and stay there until you have a good reason to change.

Rule Two:
If it would be desirable for the Satir Mode coming at you to escalate…….. Please read the article by clicking on the link above

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