Shall I give home to grievance and to woe
And cultivate my hatred with my tears?
Shall I remember carefully each blow,
And add this sorrow to my anxious fear?
I thought by hating you I would have peace;
And surely I had reason without doubt.
Yet rumination gave me no release.
For wisdom and compassion, it did flout
I remembered our past love and our shared words
I gave them freedom in my anguished heart.
I did it for your sake, yet then occurred
A sweetness, joy and gladness in all parts.
To forgive, repent and let go of such grief
Helps us more than hatred’s legal briefs
