
We do not see new people as they are
We clothe them in the dress of people past
Freud gave names to this and more bizarre
We still do not see people as they are
But “recognise” in them who we look for
Reality will have them soon declassed
We do not see new people as they are
We embed in them the love of people past.
This love unreal will soon give way to hate
They ought to be whom we wish them to be.
Then down on them, we bring the hand of fate
This love unreal will soon give way to hate
We do not even think it’s our mistake
Nor that from our desires they should be free
All love unreal will then become our fate
They ought to be our longed for fantasy.
I love him but he does not love me
Although he did seduce me with his art
His complex face I still may wish to see
I love him so but he does not love me.
I puzzle over this anomaly
And wish the grief of lies to leave my heart
I love him but he does not love me
Although he did seduce me ,broke my heart
I detest him yet for I was then unknown
He hung on me the clothes of his desire
And when I called him once on his i phone
He labelled me a whore and quite unknown
His fantasy was not one I could own
Tried,judged ,condemned to perish in his fire
I detest him hate him for I was then known
And knowing me, he sent me to my pyre
This odious slander pains my heart
Commodious, strangled ,sore we part.
Invented words and meanings seen
Where my heart has never been.
When evil is conceived to spite
In the darkness with no light
I’d like to tell you,save your breath
The vision ‘s created by your wrath.
Children fear those faces seen
In flowered wallpaper and in dreams
Some see monsters,some see elves
All conceived by their own self.
If imagined demons writhe
In the corners of the mind
Hard indeed to be secure,
To wrest from fantasy its power.
And to feel that others lie
When your image they defy.
Yet to a mountain, lions are nought
A gazelle in fear is caught.
Images odious or pure
Must be shared by human viewers
Like awakening from a dream
We realise we need not scream.
Though sometimes Pollyana’s ways
Must to anxious fear give way.
Life is good and life is bad
Double vision is not sad
I’m in deep now,never been this deep before The world’s hollow like a shell and I’m out its door. In so deep, the ocean has its own startled floor. I’m down,down.down.never been so dark , so more I can’t rightly tell how I got where I am I think I had an accident,fell over, then I swam. Sometimes it’s a loss, be times it’s a man. I guess I only do it cos I know some folk can. I don’t know if the joy is worth the pain Would I choose to relive if, I was born again? The deep joy is the amazing gain. But the sorrow is damn sad, let’s admit it plain. I’m in deep and it’s over my head What was I thinking of,when I fell out of that bed? I look up and the sea’s so turquoise like that mist is red When we get good and mad and wish some loon was dead. At first, it was all just black,black pain But from the bottom of the well, I looked up with awed love again. That’s when I recalled,feelings are deep and sane Joy is much greater when we’re in the deep,deep zone. I dunno if I’m ever comin’ out. We can’t control it,ain’t that what life’s all about? I’ll never love with innocence again,nor not feel doubt. But I’m no teapot and the devil ain’t got my spout. I’m swimming and the ocean’s so mysteriously bright Down here we don’t have no day nor no night Fish nudge me with big grins and teeth white Sea flowers fondle me and whisper,turn off that light
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Jane Hirshfield: Why Write Poetry? Jane Hirshfield is the author of seven books of poetry, including most recently Come, Thief, and the classic collection of essays, Nine Gates: Entering the Mind of Poetry. Who better to ask: Why write poetry? Here are her in-depth, thought provoking answers to this two-part question:
It’s autumn. yet it feels like summer bright
Despite the earlier ending of the day
Too soon comes starlight and deep night
It’s autumn yet it feels like summer bright
Except for changing angles of sunlight
No more long evening hours for children’s play
It’s autumn yet it feels like summer bright
Despite the earlier, gentler end of day
I try to feel through dark and distant space
To where you dwell in a so called “heavenly” place.
And you are far from those of us, who care.
Our hearts are dulled with loving thoughts not shared
Your absence has so distanced us in grief.
We can neither share our loss, nor gain relief.
I stare into the spangled sky at night
I see a space devoid of any light.
I feel into the edges of my soul
I sense,somewhere, a partially dismembered whole.
Would new technology ever aid my view,
As I search around for some tiny trace of you?
How can you choose to svanish in the night,
And never ,from then on, be in my sight?
I wish that I’d been there when you went off,
Then I could have told you how I love.d
Shall I never hear again your gentle tenor voice
Enchanting me once more with your sweet choice?
Shall I never find the laces from your shoes,
Floating gently back to earth through these elm trees?
I see more flocks of gracious geese flash by.
Are those your fingers tracing lines right through the sky?
Can you see these same geese from up above?
But you’re on the other side, too far away
I look at all that’s near,as I’m still here.
I know now you’re too far away ,too far away, too far away ,my dear.
I know now that you’re too far away,oh dear.
How can I learn to live with love, not with fear,
As I go on ,now, down these coming empty years?
So sad that you’re not near,not here,not here,my dear,my dear.
Shall I sometimes, in the night pretend,pretend,pretend,pretend,pretend,pretend you are
Oh,that heaven were not so agonisingly .so wickedly too far
So we slide down the escape chute of the years,
Like children clutching close our teddy bears?
And we cross the ghost filled plains of ancient wars
Which cover most of Europe with their scars.
How can I compare my losing one I love
When screaming poppies haunt below , above?
When bones of Jews tortured to their ground
Make the guilt of Europe ever,ever bind
When gypsies ,gays and women big with child
Died unimagined deaths in a Europe so defiled
Leaves fly off so suddenly
Small birds float on the wind
Like boats astride a choppy sea.
Their swaying soothes my mind.
Wild geese fly past at dusk again,
They head towards the North.
The holly berries glow in sun,
Nature gives all birth.
I gaze intently at the sky,
The clouds hang dark and low.
If I were too a mere wild goose
I’d know which way to go
But I am left with only words
To find my destination.
Yet words do carry down to us
The wisdom of lost generations
We use old words in unique ways.
We structure them to form
A new design not seen before
A new sentence is born
I send my words with love to you
I hope you safely catch them.
Give me answers from your heart
And I’ll do my best to match them
All that morning in the bright sun
The leaves unfolded one by one
The birds sang sweet songs in the holly tree
I felt they were doing it just for me.
In the evening as clouds rolled by
Beautiful colours embraced in the sky
I stopped my tasks and chores to see
A whole new world created just for me
As night came down with her navy blue sky
Outside my window ,I looked up high
I saw the shape of the pale glowing moon
And blackbirds were singing their heart-rending tunes
As I looked up past the holly tree
I knew the whole world was created for me
And if you take a long look up too
Remember the whole world was created for you
Inside me is a gap where love once dwelt
Immense and silent ,swallowing all my hopes
A sorrow unacquainted aaks for help
To direct me how to live, not merely cope.
I feel that gripping hand upon my heart
A sorrow in the belly’s pit beside
As he died my anguish made its start
Its heavy desperation pierced my side
While he lived I dwelled inside his shade
Protected and much loved I did not know
That every tree must fall into its glade
Destroying those who live there with its blows
Unprotected from the intense sun
I’ll burn to ash and join my loved one


Words rise up like geese at dawn
When with pale sun new day is born
The words approach and dance in line
The choice of words is mine
Words spelled here by sense and sound
In clause and sentence weave around.
Which tempting words shall I now use
And which shall I refuse?
The fire lights up inside my heart
So now my writing hand can start
I sit down at my desk and say
“This is the way I spend my day.
With words I sing and play!”
When you struck me,I vibrated like a kettle drum
then as smaller percussions and repercussions
echoing from all the glassy surfaces
creating a balletic geometry of sound tracks
in space and time.
When you knocked me down,
I fell against her and her and her;
we were like a row of skittles
and we all went down with the lifeboat;
the infinite chain of being is.
When you hit me,the Fall spread across the world
Now there is no Vertical
All is undivine and graceless.
By the Rod it’s ruled
When you left me,I left myself,the world,the rocks,dry land
I weighed down sank to the ocean bed
with coral eyes
gazing.
When you struck my mind
I became an instrument of a foreign power
Singing a song I didn’t kmow.
When the glass was smashed
the splinters flew into all our hearts.
You didn’t know what we couldn’t see.
I lay on barren ground and gave birth
To my own Creator in the desert.
When a child’s born ,she usually cries
As the stimulation of birth has its price.
Yet we must leave mother’s womb
Then create a cocoon
Where our psyche a world may devize.
Metaphors spring up like spring flowers.
Similes enchant by the hour.
How rich our own minds may be
When we perceive all we see.
For relaxed eyes don’t enjoy being narrowed.
Focus is sharp when we hunt.
Yet maintained it can too often stunt.
We need a broad view,
As the owls always knew.
If only we saw back and front!

Butterflies can light upon a rose
And sparrows miss the prickly holly leaf
So thorns deter most larger, useless foes
Bring safety to small birds instead of grief
The butterfly is symbol of the power
That weakness has in entering Sacred ground.
A butterfly can fly through hail stormed bowers
Their wings send waves across the world by sound.
A cat too has its claws as well as fur
Yet cats do have a a modicum of choice.
For those of us for whom they have a care
Claws are held ; miaows or purrs are voiced.
Am I a holly tree or fragrant rose?
Am I the cat who may unsheath her claws?
The old red wall is dressed in stems of woodIn wintertime, we see the ancient bricks.
But in the springtime come the flower buds.
And we see no more of Jack Frost and his tricks.
Which vision is the true one,we may ask
Just as with the faces we each show.
Is there any virtue in that task
For reality’s impossible to know.
Each perspective gives a vision new.
The more we see ,the more we realise.
Other cultures have a different view.
Argument is futile and unwise.
As when and where we stand gives us our view.
I must perceive quite differently from you
Shall we cling to grudges from the past.
Distorting vision;injuring our hearts?
Shall we loosen that tight grip at last?
Shall we cling to grudges from the past,
When grace is waiting for all us poor outcasts?
Soon enough we sinners shall depart
Shall we cling to grudges from the past,
With derision ;injuring our hearts?
Shall we choose to hold our wounded heart
Yet not retaliate and hurt this friend or foe?
For indulged anger grows and war can start
Shall we choose to hold our wounded heart
Contain our rage and learn the feeling Arts?
For all of us have traversed Arctic snow
Shall we choose to hold our wounded heart
Yet not retaliate and hurt this once loved foe?
I embraced the ambiguity like a bride
Who fears disclosing that her face is fake
And while we’re on the subject, I take pride
In stealing water colours from the lake
Ambiguous in intentions we don’t know
We send out signals full of first class news
If this rebounds an artist might then show
Our vision rests upon our point of view
Seventeen types of clarity are mine
Fifteen from my mind and two from pride
From this glass I make a view divine
Though Sunday someone said they thought I lied.
Ambiguously ,we hover by the scales
Trying to glimpse another through their veil.
Sometimes when bereft I’d love a snail
Though it might wet my bed with silvery trails
Would snails be lonely living in my house?
Shall I be but fit to love some louse?
I hugged a rowan tree and now it’s dead
The council said they’ll give me oak instead
It stood upon the pavement by the gate
But now it is what McCall Smith calls “late”
I wonder if self massage is the thing
Some perfumed lotion stolen on the wing.
I stroked my arms with Cream E45
Now they say I’m not allowed to drive!
I was sad but now I am at peace
All I needed was a plate of eggs and grease.
I can’t buy any clothes for I’ve no space
Yet in the autumn women like new coats
I wonder should I transform my pale face
And wear a golden necklace for its grace
Though it might prick a lover in embrace
At least it would sort out the men from goats
As I ran off and thousands were in chase
On the road to Dent there was a pool
A river in the dale had made a loop
So out your clothes and into it you lept
While tame sheep wandered round me in a group
Eating ginger biscuits as they trooped.
On the road to Dent there is a pool
To pass it by,you’d have to be a fool
I do not wish to feel this sadness now
But who decides,who chooses what we feel?
If I were strong I might use a large plough
To knock my feelings level when they grow
Bur that is not allowed by God and co.
Yet who denies his measuring the real?
I do not wish to feel this sadness now
Think, who derides,who cackles when we feel?
We ‘d hoped to see the rose gardens in June
But on the 1st he died and travelled on
We both enjoyed the roses in full bloom
We used the dark to see the stars and moon
But by the 1st I found that he was gone
We hoped to see the rose gardens in June
As I tell, dark death arrived too soon
And took away the life of a dear man
We wished to see the flowers when in full bloom
As he lay,I sang to him the psalms
I knew before the doctor’s he was going.
We meant to see the rose gardens in June
Then there with me he re-encountered calm
I had not gone there with a plan
We longed to see the flowers enchanting blooms
May was cold and bitter with alarm
That was when he fell , yet rose again
We hoped to see the rose gardens in June
We loved the scent of roses in their time
Art though my own and may I now love thee?
Art though my own and shall I thy wife be?
As waiting long lays waste to love and joy
Art though mine, or with me do’st thou toy?
O treat me not like stuff disposable
O treat me not as one intolerable.
For if thou touch then thou hast made a claim.
And from the heart, to lose is to be maimed.
For women are not like to sheep or goats
We have hearts to feel what thou hast wrought
And if thou come to steal then thou’rt a thief.
One of many , causing women grief.
Do not touch with hand or with sweet words
For if thou lie, we feel our love absurd
I went to the doctor, he said I’d pre-flu.
I said “My dear doctor, what shall I do?”
Next time I went, he said “It’s pre- shock.”
And then I had pre measles,pre mumps and pre-pox
I ran to the doctor,he said ” You’re pre-well”
I said “Are you sure it’s not just a pre-quel?”
Next time I turned up,he’d gone out for a walk
It’s hard for a doctor who wants to pre-talk.
I went to the optician, who said I’m pre-blind
I thanked him for being so intensely unkind.
I went back to the doctor,and these words I said
“I’m pre -blind, pre-deaf,pre-ill and pre-dead!
When red sun drops and cooling night rolls in
Darkness masks both danger and our vision
Ancient minds fear day won’t come again
Courage for the delicate seems thin
We wrestle with our horrid indecision
When sun drops deep and night rolls softly in
But now , new stricken by a dread of sin
Who shall doubt the soul’s derision?
Our ancient minds fear day won’t come again
When we sleep we’re entertained within
Dark dreams squander all illusion
When deep sun drops and gentle night rolls in
In reverie we’re loved and so our hearts open
Then fancy turns to full communion
While ancient minds fear day won’t come again
And so it was that our own life began
When sperm leaped up in proud confusion.
When deep sun dropped and a new night rolled in
When ancient hearts cried “Day shall come again”
Movement helps the mind by sorrow gripped
New thoughts help us leap from out the rut
Exercise and kiss your own red lips
Smoke all day and make sure your cigs are tipped
Drink some whiskey,beer and grow a gut
Movement helps the mind by sorrow gripped
Beat your walls and bedclothes with a whip
Move out now and buy a hermit’s hut
Exercise ,why! Kiss your lover’s lips
Walk ten miles and write a thousand quips
Decorate your place with smokey soot
Movement helps the mind by sorrow gripped
Go to port and snap the line of ships
Keep your chin up,even make it jut!
Movement helps the mind by sorrow gripped
Exercise and kiss a thousand lips!
Without boasting [!] I will reveal I got a bag of sweets for writing a long compostion on this when ~I was 6 years old and in the Infants’ School
| Bliss Carman, et al., eds. The World’s Best Poetry. Volume VII. Descriptive: Narrative. 1904. |
| Narrative Poems: II. Rome |
| Horatius at the Bridge |
| Thomas Babington, Lord Macaulay (1800–1859) |
Jennifer Haupt: Why do you write poems, and why would anyone want to write a poem?
Jane Hirshfield:
One reason to write a poem is to flush from the deep thickets of the self some thought, feeling, comprehension, question, music, you didn’t know was in you, or in the world. Other forms of writing—scientific papers, political analysis, most journalism—attempt to capture and comprehend something known. Poetry is a release of something previously unknown into the visible. You write to invite that, to make of yourself a gathering of the unexpected and, with luck, of the unexpectable.Poetry magnetizes both depth and the possible. It offers widening of aperture and increase of reach. We live so often in a damped-down condition, obscured from ourselves and others. The sequesters are social—convention, politeness—and personal: timidity, self-fear or self-blindness, fatigue. To step into a poem is to agree to risk. Writing takes down all protections, to see what steps forward. Poetry is a trick of language-legerdemain, in which the writer is both magician and audience. You reach your hand into the hat and surprise yourself with rabbit or memory, with odd verb or slant rhyme or the flashing scarf of an image. This is true for discovering some newness of the emotions, and also true of ideas. Poems foment revolutions of being. Whatever the old order was, a poem will change it.
When young people ask writing advice, I sometimes say, “Open the window a few inches more than is comfortable.” As with all offered advice, the words are tuned first to my own ear and own life.
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