1.You are not unique,They may  treat everyone the same.They possibly have OCD
2.You keep doing stupid things.
3.They hate you and consider you should change to suit them.Or they need a scapegoat
4 They love you.
5.They are too shy to praise you.
6 They  think you are a foreigner because you have a Geordie accent,light hair and blue eyes.So you are  Polish.They may ask you if you have packed your suitcase.Do not reply.Just hand them a stamped, addressed envelope.

1.Get undressed  especially if you wear elasticated, skinny jeans which are hard to remove.
2 Have a bath
3.Make sure you know their name.
4 Put the cat out or….
5.If you have sex in the garden,put the cat in!
6.Grow a thick hedge in the garden as while it is growing it gives you time to find a lover gay or miserable.

Don’t let them take any photos unless you are married [ to them]

 

https://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/the-mindful-self-express/201408/the-30-most-common-reasons-people-might-criticize-you

 

1. They feel insecure and are overcompensating.
2. They think you are making them look bad in front of others.
3. They feel criticized by you and are counter-attacking.
4. They think they are genuinely helping you by giving you the benefit of their wisdom or experience.
5. They have strong opinions on a subject (e.g., politics, religion etc.) and see other points of view as less valid.
6. They are trying to get your attention or connect with you but lack skills, so they end up whining (e.g., kids, teenagers)

Luther made a future of despair
For the Jewish people and their heirs
He split the Christian world into two parts
And for the Jews, promoted their dread fate.

Such vicious statements he wrote in his books
I do not understand the way he looked
For Jesus Christ himself was born a Jew
Their Bible was made ours and added to

I wonder publication was allowed
To work in which such wickedness abounds
It indicates that he was not alone
In hating God’s own people, heart and bone

If religion speaks of hate and death
Tormented it shall be by God’s true wrath

https://www.nytimes.com/roomfordebate/2014/07/18/does-poetry-matter/poetry-is-hospitable-to-strangeness-and-surprise

 

“You may want something “practical,” so I’ll say this: poetry and science are kin; they share a series of principal labors. Those are 1.) observation and attention 2.) reflection and memory 3.) description 4.) imagination 5.) re-seeing and discovery. Both disciplines cultivate curiosity and interrogation.

Moreover, both disciplines are highly hospitable to strangeness and surprise. We don’t acknowledge this enough in science. We aren’t taught to enjoy this enough in poetry.

We don’t have to do much to make poetry “more relevant.” We just have to let science and poetry grow and change as they do. We just have to give them enough space and support to work in solitude but talk together too.”