After loss comes shock then follows grief
We learn in little steps the loved one’s gone
Unless we want to lie and make believe
Courage helps the heart and helps perceive
The wounding blows that hit us one by one
After loss comes shock and, later, grief
Unless we wish to spurn and not receive.
The grace which comes with truth can be foregone
When we like to lie and make believe
Without mourning, no-one can conceive
Creative living may have been and gone
After loss comes shock and, later, grief
Forgo your friendship with those who deceive
Find the source of love which dwells within
Do we wish to lie and make believe?
Misperception is the home of sin
Attacked,deceived , wrapped up in virtual din
But after loss , we must digest our grief
Unless we wish to live in make belief

That’s true
I think perception is the most important thing we can do to improve ourself or the world