I was having a cup of tea with a friend.When she rose to her feet I began looking round for my husband as if he was some object I had mislaid or lost…
seem to have lost my old man
I search here and there while I can.
He’s not in ‘ the bath
Or down yon’ old path
When I’ve just baked his favourite flan.
Did I lose him by careless mistakes?
Or by wandering round the old lake?
Did he fall in,
Or topple into a bin?
I caught him admiring the drakes!
Is it a sexual deviation to long
For a duck which can’t tempt you with song?
Those noises they make
Both duck and drake
Seem like they enjoy a real wicked harangue
ong.





You have a way of expressing your feelings so clearly – I’m sure that sense of having ‘mislaid’ your husband is very real but few people could state it in the way that you can 🙂
Strange how this phenomenon is integral to the ‘grieving experience’…..rather ubiquitous. 😉 Hugs!
I had never dwelled on the words before.. just used them unthinkingly…but