Will revenge make us feel better?

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https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/pieces-mind/201309/revenge-will-you-feel-better

“As with all internal experiences, being mindful of what you are experiencing is the first step. Thoughts of revenge apparently feel good and may be a basic human instinct, perhaps to help us survive. Accept your urges and thoughts of revenge  as a basic human response related to trust.

Trust is important in any relationship and critical for cooperative societies. When you are thinking about revenge, it usually means you believe trust has been broken.  Remember, while the anticipation of revenge may feel pleasurable, the actual carrying out of revenge brings little satisfaction and may create more problems and suffering. Acts of revenge do not repair trust or restablish a sense of justice for both parties.”

Tied in knots

Tied up in knots,I could not see the truth
The beauty of the world became uncouth
Which ever way I looked, there was no ease
I could not see the path nor find my keys
I  could not  find my comfort  nor my muse

Why do I  so suffer  when I choose
As either way,I find I mostly lose?
Then  this conscience fierce, I must appease
Untie the knots.

Not for me to judge or to accuse
Even if my being was abused
Let me now be cherished by soft breeze
Let my heart grow softer as I grieve
Let my mind no longer be bemused,
Nor tied in knots

 

Tie someone up in knots

 

https://idioms.thefreedictionary.com/tie+me+in+knots

 

“tie someone in knots

or

tie someone up in knots

If someone ties you in knots or ties you up in knots in a discussion or argument, theyconfuse you by using clever arguments, so that you cannot argue or think clearly any longer.He could tie her in knots in an argument and never once missed an opportunity to prove hisintellectual superiority. He had easily tied her up in knots, cleverly casting serious doubt onher mental faculties.
See also: knotsomeonetie
Collins COBUILD Idioms Dictionary, 3rd ed. © HarperCollins Publishers 2012

tie someone (up) in knots

make someone completely confused. informal

1996 Daily Star It looks like an open and shut case until the brilliant QC starts getting theprosecution witnesses tied up in knots.
See also: knotsomeonetie
Farlex Partner Idioms Dictionary © Farlex 2017″

The hands entwined, the living and the dead

Don”t go, he  cried  from out his clean white bed
I wonder what  my presence meant in his last hours
The hands entwined, the living and the dead

They gave him  fish and carrot ,so they said
But on his table there was not a flower
Don”t go, he  cried  from out his clean white bed

On the stairs at night I hear a tread
I can’t  move at all  in those dread hours
The hands entwined, the living and the dead

 

His skin was pale as if he’d long time bled
Jesus looked  out from his wooden tower
Don”t go, he  cried  from out  that clean warm bed

 

He smiled the smile of heart well linked with head
At last it came, the final trembling hour
The hands entwined, the living and the dead

Somewhere was an energy, a power
A touching smile, a  need, a deed unsoured
He went, he  died , he left his clean white bed
The hands entwined, the living and the dead

A paragraph

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I said write a paragraph, not draw a graph.
It’s a parabola, a conic section
Do stop showing off.You’ll say next you built the pyramids.
How about Solomon’s temple?
Is he a relative?
It’s hard to know after so many years.
Just because you’ve not been invited there doesn’t mean he’s not your cousin
It would be hard to get there from here
Take the car
It’s the Time travel I fear.
Where do they live? On Mars? Come on.Let’s go.
They used pi to great accuracy, so I read
What, like that man who threw custard tarts onto the faces   of everybody he hated?
I guess it was more fun than Facebook
I could just eat a custard tart
We have no custard left.Sorry,dearest

On forgiveness

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“What is forgiveness? When is it appropriate? Why is it considered to be commendable?  Some claim that forgiveness is merely about ridding oneself of vengeful anger; do that, and you have forgiven.  But if you were able to banish anger from your soul simply by taking a pill, would the result really be forgiveness?  The timing of forgiveness is also disputed. Some say that it should wait for the offender to take responsibility and suffer due punishment, others hold that the victim must first overcome anger altogether, and still others that forgiveness should be unilaterally bestowed at the earliest possible moment.  But what if you have every good reason to be angry and even to take your sweet revenge as well?  Is forgiveness then really to be commended? Some object that it lets the offender off the hook, confesses to one’s own weakness and vulnerability, and papers over the legitimate demands of vengeful anger.  And yet, legions praise forgiveness and think of it as an indispensable virtue.  Recall the title of Archbishop Desmond Tutu’s book on the subject: “No Future Without Forgiveness.”

If you claim you’ve forgiven someone then take revenge, you’re either dishonest or ignorant of the meaning of the term.

These questions about the what, when, and why of forgiveness have led to a massive outpouring of books, pamphlets, documentaries, television shows, and radio interviews.  The list grows by the hour. It includes hefty representation of religious and self-help perspectives, historical analysis (much of which was sparked by South Africa’s famed Truth and Reconciliation Commission), and increasingly, philosophical reflection as well.  Yet there is little consensus about the answers.  Indeed, the list of disputed questions is still longer. Consider: may forgiveness be demanded, or must it be a sort of freely bestowed gift?  Does the concept of “the unforgivable” make sense?  And what about the cultural context of forgiveness: does it matter? Has the concept of “forgiveness” evolved, even within religious traditions such as Christianity? Is it a fundamentally religious concept?”

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The hills are burning  like the peat below

The hills are burning  like the peat below
Turned to steam , the river does not flow
The puzzled sheep meander as they bleat
In beds of heather, they can’t rest or sleep
Such high bright moors , such charring of the rose.

The fires inside the earth   escape to show
It is hell that Satan’s demons  draw.
Energy vibrates  like music fleet
The hills are burning

The weather of the world has no fixed law
Like the sons of Adam and their flaws
This conundrum of the world we meet
The centre  is a  fire, oh, nuclear peat
The open earth has space within its maw
The hills are burning

 

 

In case this anguish  block our little throats

We are not afraid as once we were
In 1963 when fingers groped
To end the Cuban missile crisis there.

Do we feel unreal or don’t we care
That we are on the edge of loss of hope?
We are not afraid as once we were

Have we so much News we can’t take more?
We struggle in our day life just to cope
Who ends the nuclear crisis that is here?

Have we split off feelings of despair
In case this anguish  block our little throats
We are not afraid nor numb, it’s clear

Can we  find again or  new acquire
The dignity of worth, the consoled woe?
Who will navigate such wild desire?

The  envy we seem locked in will require
Destruction of the other as its foe
We are not afraid as once we were
Of  nuclear crisis and its dead dismay

Puns etc

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By Mike Flemming 2018

Sentences are weapons:

 

We writers must write good sentences.
After reading your latest book, I feel I have been sentenced to death

I have been booked again after my  violin concert.
I told you  we were speeding .

The judge summed it all up:You  have gone too far, you are well past Coventry.I’d say 1,000 years in Greenland will keep Britain safe from men like you and the rest of the government.

If I cook the books, can  we ruminate tonight?

My sentence seems interminable
That’s only four words

I have not submitted,my thesis.
Well kneel  down and say,I give in.
But that’s not mathematics!
Neither is your comma.

We submitted all our plans to  the Government.
Don’t worry, their average reading age is 9.

I read the Guardian  nightly
That’s why you don’t understand anything
I do,I do
Look, we are married already
But not to each other.
Does it matter?
I feel odd.
It’s all this adulteration.
Stop, stop!
We’re not on  the bus
Well, in that case, the earth moved

 

Butterflies on Otmoor by Mike Flemming

http://www.ukbutterflies.co.uk/phpBB//viewtopic.php?t=7459&start=900#p135110

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Extract:
As the month ended, I decided I should see what was happening at Aston Rowant NNR. I prefer the south-western end of the reserve, at Bald Hill near Christmas Common, which is away from the incessant roar of M40 traffic but has similar hillside habitat. After all the hot dry weather, i was surprised to see how tall the grasses had grown and, since there was a stiff breeze blowing, few butterflies were to be seen, at first glance.

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Bald Hill – View over Oxfordshire Plain
31st July 2018

Soon, however, I realised that the slope was buzzing with Silver-spotted Skippers, keeping low as they zoomed between Scabious flowers.

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Bald Hill, Oxon – 31st July 2018
Olympus E-M1-ii with 100-400mm lens – 1/1600s@f/11 ISO 640

There were also plenty of Chalkhill Blues, of both sexes, although these seemed to appear in ‘waves’ : for a while, nothing to be seen and then a group of 5-6 madly chasing around the slope. Their condition was very variable, with several looking very battered, while others were near pristine. Perhaps, this depended on how they had fared on the recent wet days.

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Bald Hill, Oxon – 31st July 2018
Olympus E-M1-ii with 100-400mm lens – 1/640s@f/10 ISO 640

I took several ‘regular’ shots but rather liked this one, where the butterfly took off at the end of a short burst of photos.

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Sentences

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How to write a good sentence
How to give a good sentence
How to survive a long sentence
Should poets write  in long sentences
What is a sentence?
What is a bad sentence?
What is a lenient sentence?
What is a harsh sentence?
What is a harsh word?
How to write a poor sentence in the best way
How to write transparently  yet with dignity
How to survive writing sentences
How to survive writing
How to survive
How?

The Evening News

The Evening News  no longer is admired
Nor BBC to which the bright aspired
Now all the News is Fake ,there is no Truth
The logic of the heart can be a brute
The Evening News
The loss of  European links leads man to mires
Where sing no hosts of angels nor their choirs
But  only music made and played by liars
The death of civil life  is  loss acute
The nuclear power,the energy, the fire
The blazing torch, the ditch,  the dark quagmire.
The energy of life lost in disputes
The good ,like weeds ,is pulled up by the roots
Who can   kindle hope and new desire?
The Evening News?

Silver birch

The crisis of the West is here and strong
God is dead ;we do  our many wrongs
We worship kitchens made from silver birch,
Like trees beside the camp of Auschwitz cursed
To whom does guilt or even blame belong?
The birds, unknowing, chirrup,sing
We may guess the  endgame,see forked tongues
As ancients knew the Bible,verse by verse.
The crisis of the West.
To the screens we criticise,we throng
To see the drowning victims where seas fling,
We have no scales to measure what is worse.
The knowledge or the sense of  errant worth.
The language of the heart  is scarce and terse.
The crisis of the West

In times of loss

In times of loss, we each  grieve  in our way
Weeping,mourning ,sad  throughout the day
Yet we still see the sun upon the rose
And see wild winds as through  tall trees they  blow
In times of loss
The neighbours hide, not knowing what to say
The  old man wakes at night and for friends prays
One by one the  tears my eyes will close
I would have gone where one I loved  did go
Yet here I am and here my heart I lay
In times of loss

Why,but why?

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We had the crime of our lives again.We killed Democracy.
Wish you were here in sunny  Holy Land …….in prison with Ahed Tamimi?
Come back soon…… will we be able to got abroad ever again?
Having a great time.Just have no idea where we are  or indeed who we are.Wrecked It
Come  to sunny Blackpool and avoid  foreigners while eating curry and chips and Italian Icecream on toast
It was great,kid.What was it?
I can stand on my head but I can’t think.Why?
BTW the British Empire has gone now and so has the Odeon in Tottenhan
I tried  to walk on my hands but I am uncoordinated.So can I walk on yours,please?
I never even did a cartwheel.What do you do to them? Square the circle?
Why do carts have horses?
Why do we lie prone  and upright?

The charming act:charm is a weapon

The act of charming is so well conceived
That easily we’re softened  and succumb
The tempter flatters us in deed and word

To our rational mind .it is absurd
Can we not resist the tempter’s thumb?
The act of charming is that we’re beseiged

 

So many of these stories have been heard
“He seemed so nice until he stole my plum”
The tempter flatters us in act and word

Soon we are entranced and feel we’re paired
Yet why was he so free to use his gun?
The act of charming is a  tortuous deed

The good man is more natural,more unsure.
His clothes dishevelled, he is chewing gum
It’s Satan who will flatter with his words

To criticise is good if we’re not dumb
We  all want  love and want  our  time to come
The art of charming is a weapon bared
The wicked flatter all in deed and word