Sometimes I write poems or short pieces like the one I just added today which imply that it is better to forgive or repent than nurse hatred.I’m not saying it is easy nor is it always possible.But based on my own experience it seemed better for me in that situation.Similarly, I have written about revenge or punishment
I hope it does not seem I claim to have reached anywhere near perfection so I can advise other people.I don’t believe it is right to judge others nor to imply you are better than them morally.Sometimes it is better not to let one’s feeling out and upset others.Biting the lip is often best.If we need to decide some person is bad for us we can do it when we are calmer.Vengeance often makes troubles last much longer.Some people enjoy fighting and shouting but I do not.So I have to work out how to deal with people who love to shout at me down the phone.Like hanging up or putting the phone on the table and avoiding the person for a while.
How my heart sings 