Funny mis-hearing

 

I saw this quote below in a book review:

“My slips didn’t do any real harm to anybody, but I’m afraid that I did make one exceedingly grave error during the run up to the general election of 1979. Apparently Sir Roderick Ketterington-Jones’ actual words were:

“I shall shortly be exploring a proposal for extreme fines for hookers arrested behind the Co-op toilets.”

Unfortunately, my hearing of the phrase was slightly distorted and I ended up reporting it as:

“I shall shortly be proposing to explore four extremely fine hookers’ arresting behinds in the Co-op toilets.”

 

This is funny but also very interesting.The speaker said something but the hearer didn’t hear what was said,he heard something [which might show his own interests in hookers and their behinds ]and that it would  seem this dignitary shared his interest
.I am sure that is how lots of arguments begin.We mis-hear.And we mis-hear according to  our own fears,desires and wishes.We think we hear one thing and the speaker believes we have heard exactly what he said.So when we begin a discussion we are already out of tune with each other.And it will conntinue to get worse unless we are aware of what might happen.Like asking someone to repeat what they just said.