We need to self-deceive to stay alive
To function in this terrifying world
And if no trauma comes we may survive
If we watch the shadows in the cave
We have our story ready to unfold
We need to self-deceive to stay alive
We follow rules on how we must behave
As if into a void we might be hurled
And if no trauma comes we may survive
The adages and proverbs satisfy
Unless we are attacked in our own world,
We cannot self-deceive, are traumatised
We need the hold of friends who’re kind and brave
We need this love that rises when it’s shared
And if love ‘s good enough, we may survive.
We will not scratch our wounds if we are wise.
We will not rush to speech while wounds are bare
We need to self-deceive to stay alive
The words that mother said we can embrace
That we are loved, despite fragmented face
We need to self-deceive to function right
And if no trauma comes we may survive
