Why some of us are still single

IIf you hate yourself, why do you think someone else will like you?
If  your life is full and creative, you   have no time to spend looking for someone else

I’m all alone and up a tree
Why won’t someone rescue me?
I came up here to see the view
I want you to come up too
I have no ladder nor a rope
I just  have a telescope
For you see   a spy
Watching ladies as they fry
The sun is hotter,more intense
I tell the ladies :No offence
But if I get more close to one
I am frightened and I run
Yet I long for a soul mate
And to share a box of dates
Call  me silly, call me crazed
I am feeling fine yet dazed