All about poetry

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https://www.poets.org/poetsorg/text/everything-you-always-wanted-know-about-poetry

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Let me put it another way. The same sensibility that kicks poems around until they stand up like man and mean also flattens butterflies under glass and mounts animal heads on den walls. I am not sentimentalizing. I am not being the dreamy, wishy-washy thinker that poets are expected to be. When wildness is once and for all nailed, it becomes an ornament with trophy status. When all the mystery is crushed out of a poem, when its wings are pinned forever, when it no longer makes weird noises in the night, when it has grown harmless in the collection book of the school text, the poem will have attained the state of perfect meaning which is death. It becomes another prize in a landscape of stuffed birds. The saddest part of this education, for students and teachers alike, is that it’s much easier to trap a stuffed bird than to skin your knees chasing a live one. We train ourselves by this method of “analysis” to seek out examples of poetry that, because of their museum-piece status, are safe stuffed owls. This accounts for the preponderance of so much bad poetry even in anthologies that seem to be searching for something so much better, collections like Reflections on a Gift of Watermelon Pickle and Some Haystacks Don’t Even Have Any Needle. Most books of this kind display the same old trophies, leaking sawdust, gussied up with a veneer of contemporary typefaces and flashy layout.

 

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Other poets seem to exist completely in their own spiritual interiors. The world “out there” pales in comparison to their inner lives, their thoughts and feelings. Trees and people seem to exist only as comments on what is taking place inside them. We can call the first group “extroverts,” the second “introverts,” if we wish. Whatever the poet’s attitude toward himself and the world may be, there is a continual struggle within him to be true to his own vision. Teachers and students should be aware of it. To seize her vision in language as accurately as she can, the poet takes chances, stabs in the dark of the world and the self, both of which are finally unknowable. Teachers and students should likewise be aware of this chance-taking so essential to the making of any art. The French poet Paul Valéry claimed that a poem is never finished, only abandoned. The poet, then, can never be positive he has got it down “right” for all time. In this light, how much more careful should those who study poetry be in fixing “final” interpretations to poems. In fact, the virtue of a great poem is that it can be interpreted inexhaustibly, from generation to generation, century to century, and even from culture to culture. No one has stopped writing about the Odyssey; the last word on Hamlet has yet to be said. The poem reads us as much as we read the poem.

Today something wonderful happened

 

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I  won’t say what it is  except it involves an old friend who is in an agonising situation, 2 mobile phones and some fingers.And some courage.The situation cannot be changed but all else has.Happiness outweighs the grief

You reached out your hand

You reached out your hand
Like a shipwrecked sailor  on the sands
And all I did was to take hold of you.
I saw your brown fists
And  the cut on your lips
I  wanted   to warm all that cold   out of you
I  sang the old song
Forget who was wrong
I’ll tell all the ones not told by you
You reached out again
Forgetting your own pain
Every word is a piece of gold, just for you

To make my soul ring like a bell

I want a coat of cherry red
To help me now the summer’s dead
I want a coat of teal as well
To make my soul ring like a bell

Our colours are  by nature taught
And in a mix,by artist’s  caught
Some wear blue to match their eyes
And some  like black to match their sighs.

Women  have a privilege
For bright as flowers we can dress
To cheer the men as they pass by,
Or in a poppy meadow lie.

While men must look like office clerks
Or nasty dogs that bite and bark
But for your lady why not buy
A   raincoat blue  like Lenny cried?

We are part of the whole world
So like flowers we unfurl
Let us enjoy loving all
Until we hear the final knell

There is an urgent need for deep attention to the experience and ideas of others

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In recent years a number of studies have linked reading fiction, in particular, to an increased capacity for empathy, and I can think of no quality more necessary at the present moment than empathy. There is an urgent need for deep attention to the experience and ideas of others.

Eliot Twigman at Poets and Writers

Oh,sun and moon, what do you think?

No clouds and now the sky ‘s dark pink
The stems of leafless shrubs are red
The  sun is peering through a chink

No husband by me now to wink
Nor kiss me when we go to bed
No clouds and now the sky ‘s dark pink

No man to soothe  me with  a drink
No comfort for the heart that’s bled.
The  sun’s still  peering through a chink

The  trash collectors lorries clank
No man  will recall aught I’ve said
No clouds ,no sun, the sky ‘s dark pink

I drove  up to the bottle bank
But have few   beer cans since he’s dead
The  sun’s still  watching through  that chink

Time to go where dreams are shed.
Oh, gambol  nightly round my  bed!
Oh , and now the sky ‘s dark pink
The  sun  and moon speak through the chink

Beginning to understand my friend

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What I can see from what I wrote earlier is that this lady holds women’s beauty in high esteem.And she is relating to me as I was 40 years ago when I was   quite attractive.She fondled my  hair when she came to pick me up in her car.She admired my curls [ where are tbey?] I think getting male attaention is  her highest priority and she thinks I am so beautiful that I need to be very wary as she said
“Men will be running after you now you are single again.”

So far I have not noticed any such men.And, since I limp, they would not need to run.I think myse;f men can see when one is sad and they stay away unless they are already friends.
As for my writing, she has a degree in English and French so she knows more than I do.But since I love to write and don’t  plan to try to make mo ney,does it matter if I write mediocre poetry?
If she now thinks my poetry is better than it was 5 years dgo ,she may be envious.I know that is a very painful state of mind.
We don’t know most of our readers so who knows what their motives are? But for sure they would not come here for sexual thrills !

Help

 

“What we would ideally need is a guardian angel who can pause the present and carry our partners back to another time and place, to the moment when the neurotic defence that we are projecting originated. They’d be able to see the unreliable parents, the chaotic house, the loving but neglectful father, the fashion-obsessed mother etc. – and might be appropriately moved by what we had to cope with before we knew how to.”

Are we hard to live with?

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https://thephilosophersmail.com/relationships/how-projection-makes-you-hard-to-live-with/

 

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“The unconscious mind is slow to realise that things have changed in the outer world but sadly quick to mistake one person for another, seeming to judge only by crude correspondences; ‘someone we love’ or ‘a person coming to our party’ appears to be enough to confuse us.

Because projection happens without us knowing it, we generally can’t explain why we are behaving as we are. We carry years behind us that have no discernible shape, which we have forgotten about and which we aren’t in a position to talk others through in a manner that would win us sympathy and understanding. We just come across as mean or mad. What we would ideally need is a guardian angel who can pause the present and carry our partners back to another time and place, to the moment when the neurotic defence that we are projecting originated. They’d be able to see the unreliable parents, the chaotic house, the loving but neglectful father, the fashion-obsessed mother etc. – and might be appropriately moved by what we had to cope with before we knew how to.”

Friends who are enemies?

dscf0004Before adding to my previous thoughts about a friend saying a rather unpleasant thing about my blog,I feel I should tell people to trust their instincts.After the event I described I realised I had always felt uncomfortable when alone with her but I had ignored this feeling.So maybe we should listen to our hearts when considering becoming a friend to a new person.See whether they respect  us;see if they ask intrusive questions or listen to how they discuss other people.If they always describe other friends in a perjorative way that might be a warning

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After I wrote about whether I could continue to be a friend to someone who had said disgusting ,hurtful  things  to me and also despised my poetry ,I realised  that the decision would be different if  it were a member of my own family or a close friend I saw regularly.
In that case I would probably know the person more thoroughly and perhaps be able to guess why  they wanted to   warn me or hurt me.I might just dismiss it.
Someone might say,You need to know what men are  really like.However authors who write books often have their photo on the dust jacket somewhere.And is it true anyway that men  would visit my blog just to be thrilled by my face? It seems unlikely.
And if it were someone I saw every week I might guess they had a problem on their mind.I might know what it was and hence be able to understand.I used to lived near this lady ; for many years we have lived at a distance and only spoken  on the phone.I thought I knew her problems in life which are quite serious.But if   she were overwhelmed all of a sudden and came out with this it would seem more obvious to me.She had advised me 5 years ago to stop writing which I ignored.It is very sad but I feel I am more threatened by her tham anyone else.

What is Fascism?

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Fascism

“Fascists believe that liberal democracy is obsolete, and they regard the complete mobilization of society under a totalitarian one-party state as necessary to prepare a nation for armed conflict and to respond effectively to economic difficulties.[7] Such a state is led by a strong leader—such as a dictator and a martial government composed of the members of the governing fascist party—to forge national unity and maintain a stable and orderly society.[7] Fascism rejects assertions that violence is automatically negative in nature, and views political violence, war, and imperialism as means that can achieve national rejuvenation.[8][9][10][11] Fascists advocate a mixed economy, with the principal goal of achieving autarky through protectionist and interventionist economic policies.[12]

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Unskilled and unaware of it: how difficulties in recognizing one’s own incompetence lead to inflated self-assessments.

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People tend to hold overly favourable views of their abilities in many social and intellectual domains. The authors suggest that this overestimation occurs, in part, because people who are unskilled in these domains suffer a dual burden: Not only do these people reach erroneous conclusions and make unfortunate choices, but their incompetence robs them of the metacognitive ability to realize it. Across 4 studies, the authors found that participants scoring in the bottom quartile on tests of humor, grammar, and logic grossly overestimated their test performance and ability. Although their test scores put them in the 12th percentile, they estimated themselves to be in the 62nd. Several analyses linked this miscalibration to deficits in metacognitive skill, or the capacity to distinguish accuracy from error. Paradoxically, improving the skills of participants, and thus increasing their metacognitive competence, helped them recognize the limitations of their abilities.

Do we know how ignorant we are?

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https://www.theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2016/oct/28/big-difference-those-realise-winging-it-those-who-dont

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Anyone with more than a passing interest in psychology has surely heard, by now, of the Dunning-Kruger effect – the cognitive bias whereby incompetent people are so incompetent they don’t realise how incompetent they are. (The classic case involved a bank robber who was stunned to be caught; he’d assumed that smearing his face with lemon juice would render him invisible to security cameras.) This is overconfidence of an especially scary kind, because it’s not just a case of talented people exaggerating their talents, but of the untalented feeling disproportionately talented – because they’re untalented. The phenomenon is presumably as old as humanity, but recently, watching and reading the news on both sides of the Atlantic, it’s hard to shake the sense that we’re crossing some kind of threshold. Historians of the future may refer to ours as the Dunning-Kruger era.

The most obvious case, it goes without saying, is that of the proto-fascist misogynist who’s running (at the time of writing, anyway) for president of the United States. It’s not simply that he wouldn’t know how to govern, but that he doesn’t know he wouldn’t know. The British politicians so breezily confident they could handle the results of a Brexit referendum – from Cameron to Gove and Johnson to May – would also seem to fit the bill. But the greatest hazard, with Dunning-Kruger, is imagining it can’t apply to you. (That’s kind of the point of it, after all.) So all of us who thought Brexit or Donald Trump’s nomination impossible must likewise ask ourselves: were we so ill-informed about the world outside our bubbles that this actually boosted our confidence in our judgments

Can we know ourselves well enough to know why we do bad things?

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I  was thinking  briefly about the time after my spouse died.A so called friend took me out for lunch[ She had not met us for several years] and then  while eating  she said that  men would only come to my blog to wank themselves off onto my photo/avatar.They did not come to read my poetry.She told me it was no good, anyway!!
I almost asked her if they would print   off the photo first!As otherwise  what they did  might damage their laptop… a serious consideration.
[Can you clean my laptop,please? ]The mind boggles.
Actually, it is very insulting to men to say things ike that.
I am no longer interested in that topic which is so ludicrous it is funny/laughable.What does INTEREST me is this
Freud and others developed the notion of the UNCONSCIOUS.This seems to indicate that we  cannot know ourselves very well.We tend to block out anything which would  disturb our self image.Either by dreams,reflections and observing our actions, talking to close friends we may get to know the bad side of our nature somewhat better.It may not even be  so  bad.

For example despite teaching maths in Universities I have no confidence in my own ability.That is,I irrationally believe something untrue.So when my husband wanted me to buy a computer I refused as I believed I would not be able to learn how to use it.
Why I am like this I don’t know.I have to force myself to do things and as you see I did get a computer.So if people meet me and know my past they probably believe I am brilliantly clever and maybe rather proud so they may be put off.Once they meet me they see I am not like that.After all however bright a maths teacher is there are hundreds  of people who do research that few  other humans can understand.[That may have bad consequences.Without algebra we would have no atomic weapons.]
What I really want to  learn is whether we can forgive someone who wounds us deeply.This lady who hurt me rang me later  to ask how I was.She then said  ot was cruel  and she DID NOT KNOW  why she had said it.She didn’t apologise.Surely she must have some idea!It was a shock at such a time
If she had known herself enough to say she was jealous ,felt sick,.. she envied my long marriage, my brain,she was feeling  unwell, she was irritated by me in some way then I would have accepted our friendship should continue even without any apology.
But if she can be so hurtful to an old friend without knowing why  then  she is dangerous.I don’t condemn her but her aggression is out of  her control.
As I said,it was almost funny.Men  or women can find  many porn sites  so I am told.Or they can look at women’s lingerie on line.And as I still  then had an obvious  large scar on my face  it indicated to me she was not really looking at me as I am now .
I wonder though, is it right to reject somebody  because they don’t know why they do nasty things? Children do  bad  things a lot but we expect them to change as they mature.They learn to share toys for example.We don’t condemn  them but we try to help them learn top get on with others.Of course some children  are badly parented.
Could my friend’s utterance indicate  poor parenting? Could it indicate a mental health issue? I was unable to offer her anything unless she could reveal why she said it.Maybe I should be able to guess…..?

Torture in” democracies”

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Charlotte Silver is an independent journalist in San Francisco, formerly based in the West Bank, Palestine.

STORY HIGHLIGHTS

Six days after Arafat Jaradat was arrested by the Israeli army and the Shin Bet, he was dead. Between the date of his arrest – February 18 – and the day of his death – February 23 – his lawyer Kamil Sabbagh met with Arafat only once: in front of a military judge at the Shin Bet’s Kishon interrogation facility.

Sabbagh reported that when he saw Jaradat, the man was terrified. Arafat told his lawyer that he was in acute pain from being beaten and forced to sit in stress positions with his hands bound behind his back.

When it announced his death, Israeli Prison Service claimed Arafat – who leaves a pregnant widow and two children – died from cardiac arrest. However, the subsequent autopsy found

Six days after Arafat Jaradat was arrested by the Israeli army and the Shin Bet, he was dead. Between the date of his arrest – February 18 – and the day of his death – February 23 – his lawyer Kamil Sabbagh met with Arafat only once: in front of a military judge at the Shin Bet’s Kishon interrogation facility.

Sabbagh reported that when he saw Jaradat, the man was terrified. Arafat told his lawyer that he was in acute pain from being beaten and forced to sit in stress positions with his hands bound behind his back.

When it announced his death, Israeli Prison Service claimed Arafat – who leaves a pregnant widow and two children – died from cardiac arrest. However, the subsequent autopsy found no blood clot in his heart. In fact, the autopsy concluded that Arafat, who turned 30 this year, was in fine cardiovascular health.

What the final autopsy did find, however, was that Jaradat had been pummelled by repeated blows to his chest and body and had sustained a total of six broken bones in his spine, arms and legs; his lips lacerated; his face badly bruised.

The ordeal that Arafat suffered before he died at the hands of Israel’s Shin Bet is common to many Palestinians that pass through Israel’s prisons. According to the prisoners’ rights organisation Addameer, since 1967, a total of 72 Palestinians have been killed as a result of torture and 53 due to medical neglect. Less than a month before Jaradat was killed, Ashraf Abu Dhra died while in Israeli custody in a case that Addameer argues was a direct result of medical neg

How to look English

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Ginger cat.. must be Celtic.

English style my way:make it coloured if you can.Wear a hat if bald.Wash your trousers as often as is sensible.Wash your own!It’s easy

Wash your clothes a lot but don’t iron them
Go out in only  a  T shirt and jeans in winter.
Old grey anoraks  look good on most  people,or so they  seem to think
Wear skirts that show your thighs off  or leggings that show everything else off or both or nothing
Do wear crop tops and low rise jeans especially when  suffering  from underactive thyroid disorder
Jeans with rips are perfect for old ladies.Rip it youself
Wear thick padded  down coats in the summer.
Never wear a summer dress especially if you are a man
Never wear petticoats and other lingerie.Just pants  and top or vest
Wear a T shirt  saying:Anti-Semitic, moi?  while touring Oxford looking for pubs
Wear a T shirt saying :Belgians, go back to Congo.
Wear a T shirt saying :I feel Rubbish
Wear a T shirt that says :I luv money
Wear a T shirt that says: Educated in Burton, can’t spell
Make sure  your hair is exposed— both head and pubic.
I don’t understand either but they keep saying,where are you from?
I say,here,But somehow they don’t believe me.
Actually, I am mixed race.So I am only British.
Even with  ethnicity  we  have a class system with English at the top and  mixed race somewhere further down.Ancient Briton? Sorry,dear

How to dress Hot!Wear two of everything

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If you are happy to wear strange colours that most of us are not then  the Sales will satisfy your lust for clothes of high quality

1.Buy a wool coat for only £79 from a top make.Why?
Because it is ORANGE!
2.Buy  one ball of mohair and knit yourself a hat.Don’t  make it red or it will CLASH with the orange coat.
3.Knit yourself a Mobius strip neck warmer in merino wool.I invented it but now it’s in fashion
4 Wear men’s woollen vests–  a good reason to get married.Check the vest first.
5.Wear two of everything if you are thin enough not to appear  gigantic
2 Vests, 2 pairs pants.2 prs tights, etc. BUT Not 2 pairs of  JEANS.You won’t be able to walk.Ditto shoes
Drawback: twice as much washing.
Advantage: Save money on central heating.
6.Move to another  hotter country.Remember though you will be a FOREIGNER then.
So maybe not a European country?Remember ,no NHS.
7 Wear 2 nightgowns
8 Put a fleece sleeping bag between your sheets.Leave  the unzipped side on the side where you exit the bed  in the middle of the night.
9 Avoid birth control devices.Get your partner to sleep in another fleece bag.That will make it hard for him to get   near you.Don’t wrestle unless your bed is very big.You might  fall off and what would the  Fire Brigade  think?
10 Do a lot of cleaning and vacuuming instead of watching TV.. it gets one warm and the room clean too.
11 Go for a run.
12 Stay in bed for 3 months till meteorological spring arrives.

This variegated colour

In between the  blackest and the bright,
Graded shades of grey and lilac lie.
These variegated  colours give delight.
And from my soul, I hear a  gentle sigh.

 

As we live, we dwell in mysteries;
Must take decisions based on  various views.
And unknown memories from our history
Bring out  the old , so misperceive the new.

 

For  true perception, we must humble be.
Not for moral reasons but for sight.
The emptiness   lets flood creative seas.
And allows  in  rays of  guiding golden  light.

 

We need to know we do not know at all.
And, trembling, hold  the doors of vision wide.
So gentle  should be judgements when we fail.
Then errors  we’ll appreciate, not hide.

 

We will  deal with life unknown, unclear;
Perception is  a better   guide than  fear

The rage of living

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The point of living is to feel alive
Not caged  by  too high walls or steely fence
We want to love,be taken by surprise.

Our  wounded mangled self we can’t deride,
Recalling  fights and  struggles lived  through once.
The point of living is to feel alive.

We dither to and fro in puzzled ways
We feel the anguish, still and quite intent.
We want to love,be wakened by surprise.

The self’s spontaneous, not a thing contrived;
Formed with love and  hate,with all intense.
The rage of living is to be alive.

When washed away by feelings glad,immense
That cross our borders without our lament
The  hope,the need of living is  our life
We want to  give and take  yet fear surprise

Beneath the surface,force and fierceness thrive.

How softly sweetly,gently flowers pose
Carnation,orchid ,daffodil and rose.
For their intricate petals form a shield
Yet bees with striped force shall make them yield.
Appearances,both natural and contrived,
Mixed with the wiles of human nature, thrive.
As knowing not, we pluck the apple rare
And bite its flesh,with teeth we love to bare.
We too deceive the innocent who pass
Not seeing watchers hid behind the glass.
The windows break,the deep earth quakes;
Seized is the maiden ,he her virtue takes.
Beneath the surface,force and fierceness thrive.
What fearsome, burning God enjoys our live

St Maximilian Kolbe

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When a prisoner escaped late in July of that year 1941, ten men from his barracks were picked to suffer death by starvation as both punishment and deterrent. Fr. Maximilian offered to take the place of one of the men; Franciszek Gajowniczek had let out a cry of pain for his family and this holy priest volunteered to take his place.

 Maximilian has a statue at Westminster Abbey.
St. Maximilian Kolbe is among twenty modern martyrs from across the globe who have been honored with a statue on the façade of Westminster Abbey. This priest who had no greater love than to lay down his life can be seen above the west door of the abbey, along with Dietrich Bonhoeffer, Martin Luther King, Jr. and seventeen others.

 

9 Things to Know about St. Maximilian Kolbe

 

The prisoner whom St. Maximilian saved attended his canonization.
There was one extraordinary man in attendance at St. Maximilian’s canonization: Franciszek Gajowniczek. Though spared the torture of the starvation bunker, Gajowniczek had still suffered greatly. He was in Auschwitz for over five years and his sons did not live to see the day of his release. Those prisoners who had grown so fond of Fr. Kolbe were particularly cruel to Gajowniczek, as they blamed him for the loss of their beloved friend and priest. But he received consolation in 1982, in St. Peter’s Square, when the man who offered his life for Franciszek’s was declared a saint.

Your silence helped Hitler

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http://www.thedailybeast.com/articles/2016/12/04/nazi-survivor-to-the-world-your-silence-helped-hitler.html

 

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EXCERPT

Nazi Survivor to the World: Your Silence Helped Hitler

Moris Scheyer’s vivid account of successfully evading the Nazis is finally being published, and the decades have not blunted his anger at those who accommodated the Fuhrer.

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As arts editor for one of Vienna’s principal newspapers, Moriz Scheyer knew many of the city’s foremost artists and was an important literary journalist. With the advent of the Nazis, he was forced from both job and home. In 1943, in hiding in France, Scheyer began drafting what was to become Asylum: A Survivor’s Flight From Nazi-Occupied Vienna Through Wartime France. Tracing events from the Anschluss in Vienna, through life in Paris and unoccupied France, including a period in a French concentration camp, contact with the Resistance, and clandestine life in a convent caring for mentally disabled women, he gives an extraordinarily vivid account of the events and experience of persecution.

EXCERPT

Nazi Survivor to the World: Your Silence Helped Hitler

Moris Scheyer’s vivid account of successfully evading the Nazis is finally being published, and the decades have not blunted his anger at those who accommodated the Fuhrer.

MORIZ SCHEYER

12.04.16 5:01 AM ET

As arts editor for one of Vienna’s principal newspapers, Moriz Scheyer knew many of the city’s foremost artists and was an important literary journalist. With the advent of the Nazis, he was forced from both job and home. In 1943, in hiding in France, Scheyer began drafting what was to become Asylum: A Survivor’s Flight From Nazi-Occupied Vienna Through Wartime France. Tracing events from the Anschluss in Vienna, through life in Paris and unoccupied France, including a period in a French concentration camp, contact with the Resistance, and clandestine life in a convent caring for mentally disabled women, he gives an extraordinarily vivid account of the events and experience of persecution.

Pride, the deadly sin

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Dante’s definition of pride was “love of self perverted to hatred and contempt for one’s neighbour”.

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Building the Tower of Babel was, for Dante, an example of pride. Painting by Pieter Brueghel the Elder

The negative version of pride (Latin, superbia) is considered, on almost every list, the original and most serious of the seven deadly sins: the perversion of the faculties that make humans more like God—dignity and holiness. It is also thought to be the source of the other capital sins. Also known as hubris (from ancient Greek ὕβρις),or futility, it is identified as dangerously corrupt selfishness, the putting of one’s own desires, urges, wants, and whims before the welfare of people.

In even more destructive cases, it is irrationally believing that one is essentially and necessarily better, superior, or more important than others, failing to acknowledge the accomplishments of others, and excessive admiration of the personal image or self (especially forgetting one’s own lack of divinity, and refusing to acknowledge one’s own limits, faults, or wrongs as a human being).

What the weak head with strongest bias rules, Is pride, the never-failing vice of fools.

As pride has been labelled the father of all sins, it has been deemed the devil’s most prominent trait. C.S. Lewis writes, in Mere Christianity, that pride is the “anti-God” state, the position in which the ego and the self are directly opposed to God: “Unchastity, anger, greed, drunkenness, and all that, are mere fleabites in comparison: it was through Pride that the devil became the devil: Pride leads to every other vice: it is the complete anti-God state of mind.”[39] Pride is understood to sever the soul from God, as well as His life-and-grace-giving Presence.[5]

One can be prideful for different reasons. Author Ichabod Spencer states that “[s]piritual pride is the worst kind of pride, if not worst snare of the devil. The heart is particularly deceitful on this one thing.”[40] Jonathan Edwards said “[r]emember that pride is the worst viper that is in the heart, the greatest disturber of the soul’s peace and sweet communion with Christ; it was the first sin that ever was, and lies lowest in the foundation of Satan’s whole building, and is the most difficultly rooted out, and is the most hidden, secret and deceitful of all lusts, and often creeps in, insensibly, into the midst of religion and sometimes under the disguise of humility.”[41]

In Ancient Athens, hubris was considered one of the greatest crimes and was used to refer to insolent contempt that can cause one to use violence to shame the victim (this sense of hubris could also characterize rape [1]). Aristotle defined hubris as shaming the victim, not because of anything that happened to the committer or might happen to the committer, but merely for the committer’s own gratification.[42][43][44] The word’s connotation changed somewhat over time, with some additional emphasis towards a gross over-estimation of one’s abilities.

The term has been used to analyse and make sense of the actions of contemporary heads of government by Ian Kershaw (1998), Peter Beinart (2010) and in a much more physiological manner by David Owen (2012). In this context the term has been used to describe how certain leaders, when put to positions of immense power, seem to become irrationally self-confident in their own abilities, increasingly reluctant to listen to the advice of others and progressively more impulsive in their actions.[45]

Dante’s definition of pride was “love of self perverted to hatred and contempt for one’s neighbour”.

His speech is very rude

My husband is naughty a very naughty man
He throws down the newspaper on top of his beer can
He buys himself a sandwich in a cardboard box
And puts it in the laundry with his woollen socks.

He takes off his pyjamas and chucks them on the floor
He uses hankies  frequently, so I have to buy some more.
He wants to have thick sauces on top of all his food.
And when he has a hypo his speech is very rude.

I gave him such a shock when I learned to curse and swear
But we really need to,as “eff off “is everywhere.
Why, even in the Bible there are some wicked words
I’ve not read it all yet, except Psalm 23rd.

I mean to finish reading it and then when I must die,
I’ll come onto a cloud and shout,Oh pi is in the sky.
For transcendental numbers give a hint divine.
Although you can get it better with a glass of  dry, white wine.

My husband drinks draught guinness and then he fall asleep
He hollers and curses when the oven timer bleeps.
He eats a piece of kipper and cried out,Oh,dear God!
Nobody caught this b*gger with a fishing rod

He wants to move to Whitby and walk upon the sands
Sit in the audience and hear the big brass bands.
He wants to see the sun rise and to see it set…
So please send God some gelatine in case the air’s too wet!

COMPOSED WHILE SICK

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Oh,little town of Bethlehem divided by a wall,wail,wall
Hark the herald angel’s twang He’s from Gateshead,am I wrong?
Silence is golden,but my heart’s still blue. I had pneumonia,how about you?
Away with a stranger,no ribs in the bed. I saw his hanky and it was bright red.
God test you sorry gentlemen,let bath salts now be sprayed.
Silent knight,  hear our plight
We three kings all staring and bare.
Oh,come all ye hateful.
I saw an angel in the tree.I looked up and there he be
There is a green pill close at hand and it will give me rest
A tranquilliser it may be but some find brandy’s best.
What a friend we have in Yehoshua.He will speak when he is born.
There is no rose of much virtue.Only humans can now sin.
The holly killed the ivy.When they were both unsown
While leopards sllcked their locks by night,all pleated as we found.
Pale  victorious St Hat Trick

Our Rulers

William the Conjuror
William Jews First
Henry  the last shall wee first
Mathilda  the Truer
Stephen the Plain
Henry  came Second
Richard  the Flying Heart
John Magnum Started
Henry Curtains
Edward Assist
Edward  More
Edward  the Heard
Richard Who Beckoned
Henry the Horse
Henry Desist
Edward  got Hoarse
Edward went Past
Richard  the Curd.
Henry O’ Heavens
Henry O’Weights
Edward of Wax
Mary the Cursed
Elizabeth Last Tudor
James  Rue It
Charles Blew It.
Uncommon   Health:Oliver Crammed Hell
Charles  this Minute
James Stuart
William   O’ Hairy
Queen Anne
The Gorgeous
William   the Coarse
Victoria O’Reined

 

Nobody was going to examine her with a microscope

 

Mary was sitting looking at the execution of Mary Queen of Scots on TV while also mending some moth holes in her skirt.The only thread she got into the eye of the easy thread  needle was blue  but nobody was going to examine her with a microscope, she told herself gently
She also was thinking of her winter coat.Was raspberry really a good choice? Would dark grey  not be more useful?After all she often sat down  on garden walls while taking photos or even on old wooden  benches.What she needed was a folding cushion  or a small thick towel.No wonder women have such big  handbags.
Annie  her neighbour  came in the back door with a bag of broken biscuits.
Look at these!We used to get them in the market years ago.So for old times sake I have hit these with a hammer!
What sort of  hammer,Mary asked.
Why, are there different kinds?
Yes,but I expect yours is just the usual medium size.
Actually it was Ben’s.When he ran away he left it behind.
I suppose it was too heavy to fit into his suitcase.Where do he run to?
I don’t know,said Annie but as his sister in law went with him they might have gone to Australia.
Do men in Australia often love their sisters in law? Mary pondered
Who knows? The point is nobody would recognise them.Although if I went on  Saga holiday I might!More people travel now.My friend Jim went to Borneo  last yearm said Annie in a tone of wonder
So if we became lesbian lovers we could not hide in Borneo!Where could one hide now with all this travel?
Disguise might be best,Annie whispered.You could dress as a man!
You must be joking ,at my size.
Well, there are  plenty of fat men!
But would they have a shape like mine?

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So the two friends while away Saturday afternoon, both now darning Mary’s other clothes.
Why don’t you just buy new clothes,Annie  murmured kindly.
I can’t afford this quality.I shall have to keep combing Emile until I get enough fur to make into a thread.Then I can knit a scarf!
How ridiculous,You’d need a herd of cats to get enough,Annie informed  her with pity.
What a lovely idea,Mary cried,But Emile might be jealous.Or he might enjoy meeting a lady cat… or two.
I don’t think you could have more than six cats here and with food and bills it would be cheaper to buy wool
Still,a ball of wool is not so good to sleep by as a cat,Mary pondered slowly.And it has no loving eyes to look at when one comes in from the shops.
I suppose just  holding  wool in the hand might be very soothing,Annie retorted logically.
Otherwise we could join Soulmates she continued fluently.
Would men be attracted to a lady with darned moth holes in her clothing? Mary enquired humorously
Well, it  would show you were economical and thrifty,Annie cried sensitively
Surely that is not the main reason men choose a woman partner, said Mary wonderingly.
I suppose they like a woman with a gentle sensitive  nature.Annie screamed
Well.Denis Thatcher didn’t,Mary informed her delightedly
So true, but was she different once?
No, he wanted to be dominated.Mary decided.
I wonder if  he liked being whipped,Annie thought having read 5o shades of whey
She could have used the Government Whips, Mary chortled.
Both the women burst out laughing so much that  the sofa fell over and flung them onto the thick  red  and purple  striped acrylic carpet
That sofa  us unstable,Annie shouted.We could have died
Perhaps it’s us.Mary shrieked
Emile ran out into the kitchen and bit a piece out of  the Xmas cake.
I can’t help it, he mewed.They are both getting madder by the day
And so say all of us
Emlle’s a jolly good yeller
So pray  for all of us.