A friend of mine who lost her husband a few years ago was stunned when a cousin asked her how she found on line dating.Anyone less likely to do that would be hard to find.Anyway how do we describe ourselves? Too intelligent…no thanks.Bad eyesight… can be an advantage.Crippled with arthriitis… enjoy a creative adventurer/ in your bed…
Frightened of dentists.. date a doctor.. and vice versa or just vice.Actually one really important thing is smell.My husband smielled like honey.. that was nice.Scientists believe it may be the most important sense and I can understand why… tough sleeping next to a bad smelling man.An ugly man..ok shut your eyes.. you get my point?Too large………………buy a bigger bed…But kindness and a nice smell will take a man a long way though maybe with somebody else , not you or me and in some ways it’s nice to be in joyful solitude just a cat and a few novels and a bottle full of old buttons.
How my heart sings 
You can always try saying…. “The proof of the pudding lies in the eating”….;) Hugs!